Millions of children love video games, especially boys. How can you know if your son/daughter is heading for trouble?

You should be concerned if your child:

• Repeatedly breaks family rules about when and how much game playing is allowed.
• Withdraws from friends and activities to spend time playing.
• Sneaks and lies about game playing.
• Neglects school work and other responsibilities.
• Throws temper tantrums when limits are imposed.

Tips to make sure computer and video game playing remains a positive part of your children’s lives:

• Set clear ground rules about when, where, how much, and what kind of game playing is allowed.
• Limit game playing time.
• Require that homework and other chores be completed first.
• Keep video and computer games out of children’s bedrooms.
• If your child refuses to cooperate, restrict access for a period of time.
• If nothing else works, go cold turkey. Get rid of the games.